Quarrel 2
Posted on 2012-02-08 08:56:35 by Kahai3
Wow... Just a few days later, I was hit with a high fever. And thus I cannot go school. But apparently, my dad was just giving me the dissapointed look. As if I was getting a fever on purpose. Then I heard my mum quarreling with my dad saying that I love to skip school and not worried for O levels. I mean what kind of father is he?! I freeakin sick and he blames me for not going school. I been trying my best to cope with the subjets and get good grades but apparently my dad does not think so.
I know that I have to appreciate the fact that I at least have a dad but why are you scoldng me because I am having a high fever. He further brought up the fact that my brother won the Bulsery award and I didn't eventhough I had gotten last year and that the subjects are tough. Most of my friends had a big drop in grades and did not get the bulsary. He barely supports in what I do. Furthermore, the arguing between my dad and mum is getting worse.
I am very afraid of losing both of them. I plan to send them for councilling but I know my dad will think it s rubbish and crap. He does not believe that it will work. Our family also has very little bondng between one another. I am so afraid of losing them that it affects me in school. My grades been slipping. I was shocked to see that even my best subject, History, I had a fail on a test. The stress is intense and I had very little time to study for any upcoming test.
Sigh.... I wish nothing will happen. I wished that the hose could be peaceful again. ..... 
Comment:
natso said the following on 08-02-12 11:11
are you feeling better now? have more rest and drink more water..
why do you say that you will lose your parents? what happened to make you think that this would happen? before u ask them to go for counselling, maybe you can talk to them 1st..
i guess u need to find a way to concentrate.. being ur o lvl yr, things does get a little stressful but when under too much pressure u can perform too.. cont to do ur best, a little set back now is ok, wat matters is the results on ur Os.. dont be disappointed.. just continues to fight on.. jia you!
relativity said the following on 08-02-12 18:54
wow sounds like a lot of things are happening in your family right now. have you tried speaking with your brother? maybe the two of you can talk to your parents together to try and resolve the issues...
mercuryRingers said the following on 09-02-12 03:10
You must be feeling so disappointed with your dad not comforting you when you are having a high fever. Instead he thinks that you did it purpose.
You must be feeling so much stress on you now having to maintain your grades and your family is giving you so much worries as well.
It must be a tough time for you. Jia you!
hanaisme said the following on 09-02-12 10:33
hey Kaha13,
thanks for the sharing.
I guess it must have been sad and stressful for you to experience all these things that you have never wanted. Anyway hope you will recover soon from fever!
Glad to know that you still loves your dad even if he has not been understanding to you and maybe you can try asking your school counsellor for help regarding sending your parents for counselling?
Its good that you seems concerned about your studies but i hope you wiill not get too stressed out by it..maybe you can try ask your teacher or friends who are good in certain subjects to help you out?
Press On~
music07 said the following on 16-02-12 22:33
Sometimes people react in a way that is unusual of them. Think about the good times with your dad. What are the positive traits he has?
I can tell that you are having family problems, including the relationship between your mum and dad is not very good at the moment.
Your dad is probably facing a lot of stress because of this, and also he could have other problems, undisclosed.
Try to see from an empathic point of view and you will not feel so upset.
It takes time to resolve family issues. Remember, no family is perfect. What makes a family is loving one another.
All the best.